A Casual Sex Partner can be a great alternative to a one-night stand. I find it less awkward and the Sex Gets Better. Personally, I prefer having sex with the same person. But if you like one-night stands, by all means, go for it.
1. Your Partner will actually know what you like and don’t like
2. When things get Weird, It’s okay to Laugh
3. Cuddling afterward’s, yes, please
4. Having an Orgasm is more likely
5. You’re likely to try new things because you’re less Inhibited
6. You will know each other’s STD history
7. It’s okay to feel all of the feelings
8. You don’t have to come up with excuses to leave
9. He or She will most likely call you tomorrow
10. There will be a Toothbrush waiting for You…giggling
Timing is everything…
I have enjoyed getting to know you, it’s been so much fun. No more than that really, but we both know we have things on the plate that keeps us from possibly being together. I ask myself if not now, when?
I am not into Drama and it might seem like these are little things but the outcome could be more Drama driven then either of us is ready to take on. There are so many similarities between us, so perhaps in the state of mind we’re in right here and now does pull at our heartstrings. God only knows I have been yearning for affection for a very long time and I get the feeling from what you have said you have too.
I hope one day we can meet and if we both find ourselves single and obstacles a little less delicate, well then who knows. I know we aren’t getting any younger, but the facts remain. I am not looking for someone to support me so with that said I need to have time to finish projects that will provide a better income. So again more obstacles.
I am not trying to be a downer, but I do have a logical side and I’m very honest. I would never try to pull the wool over your eyes. I respect you very much, and I have felt I haven’t felt in years towards you. I hope you don’t feel like I have wasted your time, but I just don’t think or feel the timing is right for us at this juncture. If you still want to stay in contact I will welcome every call and message but if not I will understand. I know I care for you because
I want you to be Happy ♡
I still would wish only the best for you! Please never put yourself second, be brave, break away from negative people and surround yourself with the love, laughter, sex, travel, and music you so desire. I’m working towards those same desires, and I won’t give up until I get them all…this is meant as a positive message, I hope you take it that way but that’s up to you.
Hugs & Kisses, Not as good as the real thing I know, but it’s the best I can do for now…
Be realistic about the time you devote to your goals. Think about your objective realistically, and if you do not think you can reasonably achieve it given your current life situation, set a new one that is attainable for you in the present. If you decide your existing goal is achievable, you can move on to the next step. But, if you conclude that it’s not really a reasonable goal, consider revising it. This doesn’t mean you have to give up altogether. It just means adjusting your goal to fit your reality. When in doubt, go with what you’re passionate about. A goal that you care deeply about will be both more relevant and achievable than the one you’re the only sort of interested in. A goal that will fulfill your dreams will be much more motivating and worthwhile to you. When you don’t set a timeline, there is no internal pressure to accomplish the goal, so it can often end up on the back burner. Don’t make so many goals that it is impossible to prioritize them. You’ll feel like you are not accomplishing anything, and you will likely feel overwhelmed. Enjoy the Journey not just the destination…